Airplane Etiquette for Kids and Families

Make Sure Your Kids are Emotionally Ready:

I cannot stress this enough. Let’s first establish the universal cardinal rule that parents are 100% responsible for their kids’ behaviour in public settings — flying or not. Kids aside, I also believe that flying long haul in first or business class isn’t merely “transportation.” Be mindful of others on the plane who have spent their points or money for this luxury, It is not a childcare centre. Do not let them run up and down the aisle

Set expectations:

You as a parent know your kids better than anyone else, so I can’t really say there’s a magical age, but there will most likely come a time where you will just know your child can likely remain on his or her best behaviour for the entire duration of the flight.

Economy or not, I remind my kids how amazing flying is and how they are lucky to be able to take such cool trips around the world at such a young age. At the same time, set strict behavioural expectations (aka flight time is quiet time) beforehand.

Visit Lounge beforehand: Visiting the lounge before the flight is not only a great way for parents (and kids) to enjoy the flight experience from start to finish, but it allows your child a relaxing place to kick back before the flight, eat a bite before boarding and perhaps even enjoy some time in the designated family/playroom beforehand. All that said, do allow time for them to stretch their legs somewhere in the airport if the lounge does not have a family room. Getting some energy out before asking little ones sitting still for hours is very important!

Bring Entertainment:

best to bring an iPad loaded with some of their favourite shows, movies and games, just to be on the safe side — along with other non-electronic activities as well such as workbooks and mess-free colouring books.

Pack Backup Snacks and Meals: Food and chewing can halo children settle, be entertained, feel full and help them with their ears adjusting

Make a checklist of all the things you may need during your flight:

Medical: Children’s pain-relief medication in case of fever or ear pain (check with your doctor and remember to pack the dosing device that comes with the medication); nasal aspirator.

Entertainment: A few favourite toys; children’s headphones; a surprise toy/game.

Food: A few extra snacks; food to accommodate any allergies.

Personal care/cleaning up messes: Spare clothing for you and your baby (remember, spitting up has no aim); wipes; more spare nappies than you think you’ll need.

Comfort: Extra dummies; the special cuddly toy they can’t sleep without.

On Board: Sip during take-off and landing

The change in altitude can be hard on the ears. Have a drink ready for your child and encourage them to sip during take-off and landing. If you’re breastfeeding, ask the staff if you can safely breastfeed your baby during these times. If not, see if your baby will breastfeed as soon as you’re in the air or back on the ground. 

Amanda King